Remembering is the alter-ego of forgetting. Forgiveness’s elemental power is freeing you to know “what YOU are,” but that can’t happen if you hang on to things that take you from it, e.g., all that you remember.
Sure, you can move on, but without forgetting, the anchor of remembering grows more massive, and the power of forgiveness fades under the weight. The loss is only yours, and it is an enormous loss. Forgive and forget; if you don’t, you’ll never “remember” YOU!
Bozebits
Stop living in the shadow of someone you claim has wronged you. We’ve all heard the saying, “Two wrongs don’t make a right,” but if you are holding onto the “claim” of wrongdoing, whether you do nothing else, that is a “wrong” you commit against yourself. Double whammy, and you’re doing all the suffering. Stop it! Get out of the shadows and into the light, and life brightens.