Your desires connect you to the materiality of your mind, which is attached to the things of the world. In other words, attachments close your eyes to the true nature of “what is” and “what is” is never born of desire. The magic of creation is simply that “what is” is never apart from what YOU are. In other words, the secret to “more” is “desiring” less.
Bozebits
There is no right or wrong when confronting the unknown, and the present moment is always an unknown revealing itself without consideration of your attempts to overlay it with the “once known, e.g., previous experience.” Do you see? Humans impulsively compare “what is” to “what was” and, based on the assessment of prior experience (right, wrong, good, bad, etc.), end up making a mess of the only possibility available to experience reality.
You can only do what you are doing when you are doing it, and the joy you experience is when “doing it” is free of your comparison of it to something that no longer is. In other words, nowness is the brand-new playground of reality. So, go play!
Bozebits
No one has a right to a particular outcome regardless of the seeds sown. This is the paradox of human experience that most of us have forgotten and typically judge unfairly. All we can do is embrace fully “what is” in any given experience without the expectation of an outcome we believe is commensurate with our activity and definitely without any judgment of whatever unfolds. Get good with “what is,” after all; it’s all there is.