Life makes no sense at all, but why should it? It is not beholden to any ideology humans apply to it, so it stands to reason that only humans would question its perfection. It is the fantasies of something other than “what is,” which only humans are capable of, that make humans (you/me/everyone) crazy, not life.
“Supposed to be” needs to be eradicated from every mind. Nothing in existence is “supposed to be” anything other than what it is, and try as you might with noble thoughts, dreams, and fantasies, you will not alter one thing about it. All you will encounter with “supposed to be” is a whole lot of craziness and frustration that you alone bring upon yourself.
We like to say, “love unconditionally.” Try living “what is” the same way. Love and life are never exclusive of each other, and neither needs anything you or anyone else “thinks” otherwise.
Your World, Intuitively