“Let go of what no longer serves me,” we hear or say to ourselves as if anything or anyone is here to “serve” us. How pompous! Love serves. That’s all it does, regardless of your feelings that “you are no longer served” by anything you think exists for your benefit.
Reject the idea that the flow of life events and people must serve you. Love “serves” and nothing more. That is, if you are love, it pours from you regardless of circumstance and will fill you beyond anything that could possibly be of service to you otherwise.